I realise there's a bit of a crossover here with adamfarr's "Come on steal the noise" topic. However, I think it's sufficiently different to merit its own thread.
A wonderful sounding word, sibilance - for me, it conjures up images of Basil trying to deal with his wife in 'Fawlty Towers'. But when it comes to the realm of recording, I find it a total pain in the backside.
Maybe I've got a naturally hissy singing voice - don't see how I can change that. Maybe I'm singing too close to the mike - yes, but that's the kind of sound I like to get. Pop filters and foam mike condoms don't work - they're fine with plosives, but don't even put a dent in those hissy 'ssss' and 'shhhh' sounds. Same with singing across, rather than into, the mike.
I also have problems using the de-esser plugin in Logic Pro X - when I crank it up high enough to take the offending sounds out, it makes it sound like I'm lisping. Also, it seems, all the 'ssss' and 'shhhh' sounds are not necessarily within the same narrow frequency bandwidth - some get reduced, others don't. Trying to adjust the EQ is another way I've tried, but however narrow the frequency bandwidth that I'm trying to suppress, it usually tends to make it sound like I'm singing from behind a wet blanket - muffled and indistinct.
Ideally, I'd like to eliminate the problem at source, and am wondering whether it's a microphone problem. I tend to use my trusty old SM 58 for vocals (and for acoustic guitar, if it comes to that, but that's another story), but even when I use my only other mike, an AKG Perception 120, I still get the same problem. As for interface, I'm using a Yamaha MW 10C mixer, and I tend to leave the 'High', 'Medium' and 'Low' settings smack-bang in the middle.
So - over to you guys. Is there a silver bullet? (Perhaps that should read 'sssssilver bullet').