there is mutual backslapping on here - I never once said you were guilty of it STC
I joined another forum a while back and my songs got well received but also slaughtered in places - we get 'friendly ' with people on here ( it's great !) and get scared to go for the jugular
Mark eventually got carried away but only after he got ridiculed for saying he made a living for 28 years and for saying he thought some songs on here were not very good or original - note he never said all. Yes his language was totally out of order and unacceptable in the end. Musically I found him to be a good contributor and reviewer - he was one of the reviewers I respected.
I personally thought telling him to shove a haggis up his @ss was out of order as well - no where near in the same degree as his own words - but not really in the up building category either.
In my time here STC you have been involved in so many of forums 'incidents'.
We can't keep telling people they can leave as we have plenty of newbies - it was Saeed a few weeks back getting told to leave. Guys like Dutchbeat are who make the forum - I spoke to DB for a long time last night and I can't tell you how upset he is.
And Saeed is still posting with no reference to the mayhem But we don't really know he did anything wrong either - but he could clear it up.
I am off with DB as well - and before you say it STC I realise I won't be missed and there are plenty of newbies joining - it's not a knee jerk reaction honest - it's the main reason I left for a while there - theses type of things flare up from time to time - drain everyone - and a few get involved and take it to the next level with their own personal agenda.
So if you want you can comment after I leave or have a go at what I have written but I would like to wish everyone the very, very best - its been a blast - life changing
All the best everyone !
Life really is too short
1) no you didn`t
2) go for the jugular? hmm..interesting terminology..
3) yes i agree,,your right
4) no it wasn't upbuilding..but was a joke and that was clear! i think the `anti Scottish`ness of it as bugged you,,,when i`m far from that,,also the Haggis is an English invention mate
5) This one as wound me up.....can you substantiate that...there were problems at the beginning with you know who,,but he`s gone,by the looks of it...but iv`e been here 18 months and had very few spats..so try to be more accurate...i could go through my posts and check..
6) iv`e not told anyone to leave...i`m not in a position too ,,,iv`e pointed out if you leave(or I) you won`t be greatly missed...As to MR..he said is was going and i`m saying ..let him go..!!
7) As to your going
i despise self righteousness ...and this smacks of it!!..why do YOU have to go? Dutchbeat has not gone,,maybe a cooling down/time for reflection period.....we all know that.
I don`t dislike you Kafla ..i hope you know that,,but reading between the lines here ,,we have some issues.
You know it`s so refreshing having our teenage fanclub on here..their enthusiastic .get involved...positive,,say `upbuilding ` things...
Lets get some perspective here...there are VERY FEW PROBLEMS on this site.....considering how lightly moderated it is,,so JAMIE ,don`t worry this is a once a year event,,the rest of the time things are pretty cool.
@ KAFLA....thanx for the email...thats cleared a few things up..i had removed my comment ,thought it was unwarranted, unfortunately you read it....the other no stays cos it`s so true.
Also i've let a few things you've said in the past go,i was even p`m by others to say i shouldn`t take it,,but you know what it`s all water off a ducks back to me...even this,,,,,