it is very simple, if everybody would just come in once in a while and post a song of their own and don't comment on other people's work there would be no forum
it would dead within a week, even these people that only drop their own posts would not come by anymore because there is nothing to get for them out here
people should just be decent and if 5 people said they like a song it is of course still encouraging and nice for the songwriter to know that person number 6 likes the song too
in other words, a longstanding member like montydog is completely right IMO
i have spend most time on this forum i think (yes, i know i don't have a life
) and i usually can tell after two or three posts what kind of new member we have
, and if it is really bad i comfort myself with the thought that the worse ones are usually gone in a few weeks because they don't really care at all about interacting with the others
the worst onces, are the once that come back every few months to drop a song and be active one week (only reading the comments on their own song) and go again. Because these onces do keep coming back.....we had some extremely terrible examples in the past to the point that is was thinking what kind pof people are this, how do they get by in real life??
sorry, just wanted to get that of my chest