But the reason this discussion keeps coming up is the lack of good will by forum users
A "cast iron rule" needs to be enforced
It can't be "cast iron" one minute and reliant on good will the next
I agree that any rule needs to be enforced by the mods and I also completely agree that the "rules" need to be cast iron
The tricky bit is balancing the rules/policing with the friendliness/goodwill of the forum
It is VERY difficult to achieve and I think TONE does an excellent job of taking all of these differing views into account and coming up with sensible solutions
If you get a review, return the favour basically. If you don't want to return the favour, leave the forum.
The problem is that this is not how it works in reality
Some join the forum, post a song or two, get lots of reviews, not contribute much (if at all), disappear, come back months later, post some songs, get loads of reviews, not contribute much (if at all), disappear - rinse and repeat
In the "olden days" the forum was "tight enough" to ensure that repeat offenders got ignored and eventually disappeared
Now the forum is busier (a good thing) the repeat offenders still get good value from the reviews (eg by newer members) without contributing much to the forum
As I have always said I find this a tricky one as I really enjoy reviewing songs so I don't particularly mind the "wanderers" - everyone can choose who they give reviews to or not so I do not get particularly bothered by the "fly by nighters"
I do enjoy these discussions though as it is great to thrash things out every now and again and if it leads to improvements to this wonderful place then that is great - but I am personally quite relaxed where it ends up
I would be equally happy with a laid back casual forum (where we may lose those that want a more rigid structure) or a rigid structure with cast iron rules (where I think we could lose the more relaxed/casual members)
If I
HAD to choose I would go for the cast iron rules so that everyone knows where they stand
We seem to be sailing somewhere between the 2 on this forum, which are potentially dangerous waters IMHO, as discussions like this will keep cropping up causing disruption
However, I think everyone gets more value from the forum than they give so a mass fallout is unlikely, which is why it is such a nice place to "hang out"