But I want it all! I want to see the girl (boy, person), I stop the car, we get to know each other, she takes me to a party, I meet her friends, we chat, we have some drinks, some deep conversations, some of them want to come with me, some of them don’t (and some of them definitely shouldn’t!), we get back in the car, we continue on towards the destination, but it’s been a lovely, memorable, and unique journey that my friends want to hear me tell them about again and again...
(Obviously this is mostly in my dreams, literally and figuratively. I do *try* eventually to get to the destination though!)