What a great, thought provoking post! I'd say that throughout my life I've felt more than a little awkard about pursuing my songwriting ambitions. I don't know what most of my friends and family think about my songwriting obsession. If I had to guess, I'd say that they'd be surprised at what I write about, the thoughts that I have and my willingness to openly express my thoughts through my writing. If they were to observe how passionately I pursue my goal of writing, they might say ''Why?' I write because it helps me to make sense of the world in which I live. I've always believed that I had enough ability to be succesful, though I think that my chances of achieveing success are slim. Increasingly, my goal is to be as good as I possibly can be. I want to communicate what it is like to be here, my feelings, my dreams, my fears. I feel a sense of achievement through my writing that I don't in any other activity that I am involved in. I often want to stop writing but won't. I feel that I am pursuing the impossible goal of perfection, which I don't believe I can achieve in any other pursuit but might just do so if I can continue to write. Songwriting is for me, both a blessing and a curse. I often want to leave it behind and get on with the business of living, without recording my experiences. I've played football and spent a great deal of time down at the pub with wiith the lads and got the impression that they were bamboozled about my writing and musical ambitions. I've occassionally spoken about my passion for writing at work and some have been genuinely interested, though I don't make a point of spreading the word as I feel this isn't always the case. I write for my my band and have known the singer and bass player for over twenty years. They love the music that I write and think that I have genuine potential to be a succesful commercial writer. That's a great compliment. You never know, that might be so! My wife knows that I'll always write. It's not of significant importance to her and I am grateful for her understanding. I could go on but I think that the picture is fairly clear. Songwriting isn't really a common activity and therefore the reasons for writing aren't fully understood. If you enjoy writing and it benefits you in any way, stick with it. If you do achieve success, then, it won't seem such an odd activity to those that don't quite understand what all the fuss is about. I don't mean earning a ridiculous amount of money from writing a hit song. Wouldn't it be great to simply earn a living from a skill that you've developed, having devoted so much time, passion and energy to?
This is a great post Andy, Well done!