I do think the chord variations/extensions can sound wildely different depending on what instrument they are played on
Coming from a guitar background I would say...
I now automatically play a 9th chords for the IV and V chords in a 12 bar blues - in A I would play A7, D9, and E9 - I just personally love the bluesy/jazzy/funky feel of these chords played at the 5th fret for the A & D and 7th fret for the E
There is also the famous "Hendrix" chord - E7#9, which sounds great in rock
The Maj 7 chords are my instant "guitar jazz" chords to add a bit of sophistication to a piece
I particularly like adding Maj 7 chords to songs in Minor keys by using the relative Majors
Eg - in the verses of this song (which is in Gm) I use Minor 7 chords and a Major 7 chord (Gm7 Cm7 EbMaj7 Dm7)
In the chorus I then contrast this with mainly Maj 7 chords: Bb7 FMaj7 Gm
https://soundcloud.com/boydiemusic/why-would-i?in=boydiemusic/sets/boydie-original-songs When I am playing funk I also use 11th chords to add a bit more interest and movement - eg moving between 9th and 11th chords by movng one finger
I hope that gives you some ideas and "food for thought"