The other thing I find very common in those north of 35 is,they stop seeking out new music and only listen to what they liked in their youth,so that demographic wouldn't have a scooby doo if there are good new songs out there or not.
This is totally true. Why is this done? Please listen to some modern music, people. Even if you just stick to genres you already like, the idea of being a songwriter in the current age but yet dismissing all songwriters in the current age (even though they're pros and you're not) is ludicrous. Being older doesn't give you the excuse to be lazy in searching out new music (when music is your passion, you should always be looking, that's non negotiable) - you can be lazy as a young person too and stick to the charts, or what your friends listen to etc - being unadventurous with music is not about age its about laziness.
Harsh much? Sorry. I think I made a bit of a dramatic turn around on this thread - but as much as I see where the sentiment comes from... I find it rather important to keep up with current music, and rather ignorant not to. I will help you though. Here are some great ways I find new music:
This guy reviews new albums coming out. I find his videos quite entertaining and he knows a lot about music. He has a playlist of reviews of favourite albums and organises reviews into genres too, so its very helpful:
The NME is now free and you can pick it up in a few places including HMV and Topman I beleive. The writing is pretty bland, but I skip through it quickly and pick out artists to look up that look sort of interesting.
BBC Radio 1 Breakfast Show. You can listen to a bit while eating breakfast, or going to work and it's not much of a sacrifice or a commitment. But it will keep you up to date with the general pop goings on (and some random more alternative stuff they will suddenly throw in just to keep it interesting - I think it's a very well done playlist, usually better than most radio shows that just make me sick of everything). And if you miss it but still wanna listen - you can use iplayer! The shows in the evening are pretty odd. The one when I was coming back from school was just awful... Annie Mac's show is after that and has some interesting EDM if your ever feeling curious, but Breakfast is a nice bet to get a good overview of what's currently popular, and some little interesting tit bits they're trying to turn people on to.
Total Guitar Magazine is fun to read for guitar stuff. Nice full tabs of songs at the end and all. Lots of excercises, but also will do band interviews, and a page on up and coming bands. I have found some really enjoyable stuff there.
I haven't tried Radio 6 Music... but I've heard that some of my more alternative bands I found through the above sources have been on there...
Actually look for stuff. Search up "best new indie bands 2015". I did that in July. Find the baby bands that you can see for under £10 before they get on the radio at all. That's great fun. And follow them on facebook. Then sort of follow facebooks reccomendations based on those bands. Oh and talking about facebook get the "bands in town" app on facebook. Make sure you give it a list of all your fav bands and it will tell you when they're doing gigs in your area. But ALSO, it will give you gig reccomendations based on things that are similar - NEW BANDS. And talking about gigs - look at some cool small venues near you and look at whats on.
Oh and when you get turned on to these bands and you go to buy their stuff - check your Amazon reccomendations when the stuffs in your basket.
All of those are good ways to find new stuff. You should invest some time. It's an investment in expanding your musical horizons, which I think should be important to songwriters. In this internet age with all these resources, there's no excuse.